tables turned

i try to be understanding when a guy says, "i'm not that other guy who hurt you. i"m different. so there's no reason for you to have your guard up when it comes to me." you're right. you are not the guy who hurt me, but you should chew your own words before you spit them out because i am not the chick who hurt you. and don't act like you've never been hurt before. because had you not, you wouldn't run around like some playboy trying to tag as much ass as you possibly can. and don't give me that mess about 'not being ready to commit again because you did that before and it didn't work out for you' line because that one is mine. so the chick before me cheated on you and left you high and dry! that doesn't mean i'm going to do the same thing. i have more respect for myself than to bed hop. if i am not happy with you, i will leave, period. i have too many things running through my head as is than to try to come up with and maintain a lie to you about being with someone else. i do have a life outside of 'me and you' and i'm not going to stop living it because i'm with you. that's what makes me interesting and i will be damned if i lose my identity trying to conform to this ideal 'mate' for you.
well i guess i should get to the point of my title. i'm just babbling because lately it seems the tables have turned and guys are feeling the wrath of non-chalant women who have been fucked over by guys and girls alike and choose to let that hurt dictate their way of being. hell, if i did that; my life woould have been dramastically different twelve years ago when i experienced being cheated on for the first time. i simply took notes from the lesson and kept living my life. i'm not going to sit here and say "i dropped that man like a hot pot" because i didn't. how was i supposed to know what i should do? i had never  experienced that and it did hurt. but i also got over the hurt.
i guess the moral of this story is to practice what you preach because you can't expect me to not feel like you're going to be a lying, cheating snake like the last guy if you think i'm going to be a lying, cheating cumdumpster like the last chick. can't we both start with a clean slate?